Have you ever heard the song lyrics “Killing Me Softly with his Words” by the Fugees? Those words are very powerful. Domestic violence is everywhere and more common than we think. We have campaigns about suicide prevention, bullying, and many more social issues. However, the month of October went by (October is the month for Domestic Violence Awareness Prevention) and we did not talk about this taboo topic.
Many students have come to me throughout my years of teaching, and shared their stories, in tears, about how their boyfriends or girlfriends were abusive to them either physically, mentally, or emotionally. I am no counselor; I just listen, and refer them to the appropriate staff. Sadly, as much as these students were upset, they always had an excuse for their partner’s behavior. Domestic violence is NOT acceptable. It ruins life, destroys self-esteem, and isolates you. I know this because I WAS a victim of Domestic Violence.
It took me a lot of courage to write this piece. Why did I do it? There is not enough help, compassion, and support, and resources available, for people in this situation. I would like to change that. I want to take a step and say “enough.” We all deserve to be respected.
If you are reading this article, look around you. “We all have something within us that this world needs.” According to the National Resource Center on Domestic Violence, during the holidays, we see more violence either physical or verbal than any other time of the year. So, be kind, take the time to compliment someone, ask how they are doing, and smile at someone randomly. It takes two minutes and it can change someone’s day for the better. It gives hope.
If you are a victim of Domestic Violence, seek support, talk to someone, a counselor or a friend, have a backup plan, and if necessary call 911.
And remember, you are not alone.
Annie Rochon was born and raised in Montreal, Quebec, Canada. She relocated to Peru, NY in 2005, and recently became a proud American Citizen. French is her native language – however, growing up in a multicultural city and being surrounded by different languages has been a great advantage to her. She has been studying foreign languages since elementary school.
Annie Rochon is a certified translator and teacher, and is currently a proud assistant professor at Paul Smith’s College. In her teaching career, she has taught all levels from elementary school students to middle/high school students. She also taught in a Maximum Security Prison. She is proud to share her language and culture with her students and others. Coming from a multicultural background, she is a strong advocate for diversity. Furthermore, she ardently believes that language, travel, culture and the beauty of cuisine will forever be intertwined.